Guys- on a moral standpoint I just want to put it out there that this post was- "I'm an idiot and didn't see something obvious and am now poorer" not "I need to weasel out of this". I would love to try somehow, but if I have to I will accept responsibility. I don't appreciate posts saying its your own fault, I realise that its my fault. I am just bemoaning my situation, not trying to get out of it.