The ONE thing I forgot to prepare for straight razor shaving... the Wife.
I read everything, I watched all of Lynns tremendous video's, I got guidance from an SRP mentor. I practiced stropping with a belt and a butter knife to get my turns and muscle memory. I was utterly and fully prepared for everything but the actual FEEL, or so I thought.
I managed to get in 4 very good first shaves. The first 3, I gave up on a small triangle under my chin that I just didn't feel comfortable with the amount of resistance it was giving me. Nailed it all on shave 4. 4 shaves, not a nick, scratch, cut...
Today was to be my 5th. As I was lathering, I sensed movement, and there was the Mrs., standing RIGHT next to me. "Dear, PLEASE do not sneak up on me when I am shaving with a straight".
She "needed" to take a shower. Not really, it could have waited. Waiting apparently, is a mans job only. As I prepared to start my shave, she kept passing behind me, in the narrow gap between myself and jacuzzi tub, going to and from the shower. "Baby, PLEASE do not bump me, I have 4" of Lynn Abrams fresh honed steel against my throat" "I WON'T". Well now I felt better. I set the razor down, and waited for her to actually get in the shower.
Mang, I spend HOURS leaving the Mrs. alone when she is doing her girly things. Nails, shaving, foot soak, jacuzzi bath. Why harsh the mellow, right?! You'd think it would be appreciated, remembered, honored...
So I wasn't fully concentrating on my shave. Honestly, I was kinda cheesed. Is 20 minutes of privacy every 3 days REALLY that much to expect? So I'm thinking on that, and of course, not fully concentrating on my shave. AND then, I bit my neck. Not bad, but enough to draw blood. Well, NOW I'm kinda fuming on it. Watching her soap herself on.. dammit.. my time. So of course, as I come in for the close trim to the 'stache, trying not to lopside it but thinking about getting my FIRST bite cause I was distracted.. yep. 2nd bite. A lil "flapper" this time. MOAR blood. Both times, "Everything OK?" FINE baby... So I start like, REALLY alternating the hot and cold running water. Thinking, ya know, training...
But really, it is entirely my fault. I should have talked to her before I even did my first shave, and I am going to. it is 20 minutes twice, sometimes thrice, a week. I WANT it to be "my time". I don't paint nails, soak feet, jacuzzi... It doesn't seem like a lot to ask. But I HAVE to be careful. I don't want her to get "jealous" of my new hobby. OH God no, start checking the mail? ;) You guys know what I mean, this ain't my first "hobby".
Also, I HAVE to be really gentle. Try to put it in terms that she can relate to. Safety, comfort, ZEN... Besides, I don't want it coming back up in some stupid argument well down the road.
Which reminds me, ya know why the NFL doesn't have any female referee's? Yeah, they'll call ya on stuff ya did 3 years ago.. ;)
So fellow noobs. Talk to your wife and kids (if they share your bath). It's serious stuff. Not just from the safety and comfort perspective, but it's 2016. About time WE get to claim a little "Me" bathroom time,:rock: yah?