From online where I found the obit--
Lisa Drafall, the general manager of the Gazette, confirmed that Dehmlow's family paid for the obituary.
A relative, named Dwight Dehmlow, said “there is a lot of stuff that is missing from the obituary,” according to the Star Tribune.
“The sad thing about this is there is no rebuttal. There is more to it than this. It’s not simple,” he said.
“She made a mistake 60 years ago, but who hasn’t?” he told the news outlet. “Has she regretted it over the years? Yes.”
Dwight Dehmlow said he believes Kathleen’s son, Jay, was responsible for the tone of the obit.
“He’s very upset,” he said.