I've lived with for about 10 years now. I experience the same noise as Pelkey "the cicadas". I never could get my wife to understand what it was like until we were sitting at the dinner table a few months ago and she says "I have to go find that cricket outside and shut him up,he's driving me crazy?" I asked her "what cricket"? She never realized how loud the sound in my ears is. I thought she was going to cry when she understood it. I use a fan at night for the noise,but I may give one of the white noise machines a try. Who knows,maybe it'll help some. It's sad to know so many people suffer with it,as it's quite maddening at times.