Originally Posted by
SkinnyChef
I would have to agree for the most part. A lot of the folks I have been dealing with at the VA have been truly concerned and helpful. But they usually have nothing to do with the actual care. They are liaisons more or less. It's the few that mess it all up. However, that being said, there does seem to be more than a few vets that are treated much differently. I would attribute your success with the VA as someone who spent their life in the military. Those of us who separated before 15-20 years, however, seem to get very different treatment. My mother-in-law, for instance, has been crippled for years after part of a propeller almost killed her in the Air Force. Twenty years later they finally awarded her a 100% disability. Her treatment at the VA, which I was witness to, was less than compassionate. I have, however, seen retired officers and NCO's that are treated like royalty. I have not been treated the same way, however. I feel like their thinking is "a dead soldier is cheaper than an injured one," unless you spent your whole life working for them. Just my $.02.