It seem the knock on lavender is the estrogen in it ... here's a bit of info from Men's Health about the damage soy estrogen can do to your brain ... so maybe we're looking at the same affect for us older guys.
http://www.menshealth.com/cda/articl...bd2010cfe793cd____
Worth considering.
Of course, if you're like me and have a few dozen soaps and creams, adding a lavender into the mix probably won't affect your health or make other guys want to look down your shirt at the upcoming convention. :y