I just bought a Norton 4K/8K combo stone and a Norton Flattening stone. I noticed that after using it on the 4k side there are fairly deep scratches in it as well as the 8k side. I was flipping the stone 180 degrees and also using it under a stream of water as I have seen in some of the videos. Is this normal (probably not) and is the Flattening stone only good for rough lapping or do I need to use wet sandpaper or DMT to finish?