I am going to give you the "Three Great Secrets of Honing"
We tell this to White Belt Kempo Students when they attain their 1st Yellow Belt too "The Three Great Secrets of Martial Arts"
Practice..
More Practice..
Practice it one more time...
http://straightrazorpalace.com/honin...-1k-shave.html
Now in reality read that thread above, and try it, then once you get that move to you next stone and do it once again and the next and the next... Once you learn to adjust your honing so that every step yields an noticeable improvement then it all becomes really easy...
This like everything else in this hobby takes time and repetition it is boring and most people stop at "Good Enough" but all you have to do is invest the time and it all makes sense