Not a chef but I like to cook.
These are the knives I bought sometime ago, and I like them a lot:
http://straightrazorpalace.com/showthread.php?t=19262
I prefer 6" knives to 8".
For pans, well we use tefal which are great to work with.
They can't stand years of intensive use, so you need to replace them after 5-7 years. Otoh they are cheap.
We have a cast iron stir frying pan from Le Creuset, and it is great.
The shape is nice, and it comes with ears instead of a long handle, so it is easy to put on the table. It weighs a lot, but otoh once it is hot it stays hot, which is nice.