Brooksie Buddy! Sounds like it's intervention time :/ My "roommate" (some call her my fiance) still doesn't have access to my accounts (and I hope that's always the case). We just have a joint account to pay all our mortgage, bills, taxes etc. Everything else is separate.... so if she just happens to be home when I recieve a package I just say "What?! it was only $20" or that "oh I just sent it out for honing". If she finds out I'll just explain how RAD is "slightly less destructive than a hardcore drug addiction or an extra marital affair".