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No need to do it under running water, just wet the surface and you will be ok. You don't have to use a screwdriver either, any piece of steel will do the trick, cheap kitchen knife, back of a chisel...

How much pressure did you use, and how often did you rinse the stone and the DMT? It is easy to kill these lapping plates with excessive pressure and letting the swarf build up like mud on it.