Finally found a combination that works!
So after a few months of trying different blades and soaps.................I found heaven :) The Edwin Jagger DE 89BA11 Barley Chrome is just perfect for me (thanks Obie) using the Merkur Stainless Platinum blades, and with the soap I swapped between two brands (Taylor of Old Bond Street and Proraso) After swapping between them the Taylor of Old Bond Street Sandalwood has won :) No more razor burn and very smooth skin!
Currently having IPL treatment to cut the rate my face hair grows at, and also it will help getting the in-grown hairs loose.
So my set up:
Razor- Edwin Jagger DE 89BA11 Barley Chrome
Blades- Merkur Stainless Platinum
Soap- Taylor of Old Bond Street Sandalwood
Again thanks to those who have helped me!