What is the general concensus for a post shaving ritual?

As of right now I have a bottle of Thayer's Witch Hazel (Unscented/ Alcohol Free), two Clubman Styptic sticks (one dry stick/ one roll on) and a bottle of Nivea Calming aftershave balm.

I am thinking of getting another bottle of Thayers with alcohol for that brisk Why did I just splash this on my face after I shaved feeling

Do I need an alum bar?

My skin gets oily by the end of the day and I have coarse beard stubble.
My wife doesn't like strong scents so I am guessing I am pretty limited in the aftershave lotion/balm department.