Agreed . . . because Westerners generally have more (personally) to lose. So lets show them how Islam is NOT incompatible with Western culture . . . that, in fact, they CAN raise their kids to worship Allah AND live in security and tolerance, without having to fear that a different sect is going to come and kill them. THAT is how we stop them.
I'll use the example of Romania and Ceaucescu . . . it wasn't the brutality of the dictatorship, it wasn't the nepotism that caused the revolution. It was DALLAS. JR Ewing et al caused a revolution that overthrew one of the more brutal post Soviet regimes in the world, because the people got to see what (they thought) life could BE LIKE.
http://www.google.ca/url?sa=t&rct=j&...86475890,d.aWw
Similarly, SHOW them what life is like here for other Muslims (good AND bad). Show them kids in college, working at SubWay, mingling with other cultures WITHOUT losing their Faith, and they will ask WHY NOT US? As soon as they start to ask their Leaders "WHY?" we win. Because the answer will either be a move TOWARD westernization, or it will be a LIE. And eventually, one of those Leaders will make the move, and the liars will end up against a WALL. Not because we put them there, but because their own followers did.