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I think this is what depressed me so, I mean how many of us show such disregard and contempt for all but what we want. We excuse it away by saying things like "It's a big company. they can afford it" or maybe "I worked hard for that so and so for a long time. I deserve it" But no matter, it is still stealing.Quote:
Originally Posted by welshwizard
Not to rock the boat here, but I wouldn't have called her out like that. I don't know what compelled her to try to steal the soda and there aren't many reasons I'd consider forgivable. Still, what business is it of mine to tell her how to live her life or what to pay for and what to pilfer?
Don't get me wrong, committing to an honest life and expecting that of others, keeping a watchful eye over your neighbors and neighborhood, promoting virtue among the people in your life - these are noble acts, I suppose. Just for me, I'd be well enough to let people live their own life so long as it doesn't mess with mine.
Again, I don't mean to rock the boat or try to say "I'm right, you're wrong." You're probably right anyway... Just not my style I guess.
I think it may be uncomfortable, but as a citizen you certainly have a right to express your opinion(s), especially when it is a crime. Would you not say something to a person being abusive to a child or woman? The thing is; it DOES mess with your life. Someone lets this go and it shows that its okay to steal. Do you want your offspring thinking it is okay to steal? Hardly. Letting these things go increases prices on things we wish to buy, thus the innocent are left paying for the mistakes of others. When they do get caught our jails get overcrowded, our taxes continuously increase. Do you know it is quite expensive to house an inmate? I've often found it ridiculous when people would come to jail for bad checks, often less than $50 in amount. Too often times it was overlooked. Wrong, but not intentional in a lot of cases. They'd come in on a Friday and not get before the judge until late Monday. Four days housed in the country facility for a check less than $50. Your tax dollars spent well more than that check was ever worth.Quote:
Originally Posted by BingoBango
Don't get so depressed by the fact that we live in an imperfect and sinful world. None of us, including that lady, are perfect. At the same time, your instinctive reaction was admirable and adheres to an age-old religious tenet--that we are our brothers' and sisters' keeper.
Take comfort in the fact that you may well have made a positive impact on that woman's life. Perhaps she will remember her encounter with you for a long time afterwards--and think twice before she puts anything else unpaid for in her shopping tote.
Take care...
Hey Mark, don't let that depression control you, go on fight it from within, you can achieve victory :p.Quote:
Originally Posted by JMS
Personally I'd like to fight that full stop (or 'period' in colonial speak) between the two 'sentences'.
Goat luck!
The world is a very bad place. Morals/Ethics are pretty much non existant. I commend you Mark, what can I say other than Im not shocked, and more so just confirms my belief system that many dont believe in anything any longer.
Quite correct Ivan!:)Quote:
Originally Posted by gugi
Just being ex law enforcement if I had seen that I would have just told the clerk not her. You never know about people and all the what ifs these days. Maybe she might have pulled out a gun and shot you, maybe she was planning on robbing the place, maybe she had confederates with her. Maybe she was mentally ill or just a crook who does this all the time.
Bernie Madoff and the execs at Enron were mighty well-kept folks, themselves :(
Alternatively you may have reacted from a sense of superior moral certainty and merely scared her and she thought you'd narc on her so she put it away. Then thinking "I don't have time" She went ahead and paid for it.Quote:
Originally Posted by JMS
edited to add: this is not a reaction from your disagreeing with my pov it is just another possibility. depends on where you were "at" when you spoke to her