Can you guys help me find the softest of brushes?

I am not interested in paying lot of money for the handle, however, I will pay for the softness of the hair.

I have this one now, but its kind off "stabbing" and feels pointy. Am I using it wrong?
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Any recommendations? I should look for silver tip, right?