I don't do restoration work- so for me the 3K is as coarse as I need. The Shapton glass hones are AGGRESSIVE and will set the bevel of the hardest razor VERY easily.And if you don't FIRST establish a bevel-you are just wasting your time and wearing out the razor.
For the majority of my honing, I use the 8K and 16K most frequently. The 6K is very useful to remove small edge defects.
I also own the Norton 4/8K combo stone and the 12K Norton. All the available hones serve a purpose-its just my opinion that the Shapton glass really allow a novice to get good results in a reasonable time. They don't hone the razor for you-but they certaintly have eliminated alot of headaches. (and sore hands).