I've been looking for conversion tables for "grit to microns". So far:
Conversion Chart Abrasives - Grit Sizes
which has French, ANSI, and Japanese standards;
Grit and Microgrit Grading Conversion Chart at READE
Grit Size Chart
Micron-graded Abrasives comparison table
I'm not ready to summarize, yet. But one thing is clear:
. . . No single formula is going to work.
Charles