I hand hone and have since I was a young kid. All it takes is practice. The same principles apply- make sure the bevel is set, and then refine the edge as far as you would like to go. I like to go all the way on my knives also. It doesn't take me but a few minutes because I've been doing it all my life. The wife is used to extremely sharp kitchen knives and they are actually fun to use. My EDC is almost as sharp as my razors. Cuts like a hot knife through butter and I keep it that way with minimal maintenance every few days. Some people raise a burr but that wasn't the way I was taught as a kid so i don't monkey around with it. In my experience razors have been much easier to tackle since they have a built in angle whereas you have to create/maintain an angle on knives. Here is the best advice I can give you to keeping a bevel even by hand.
Picture the bevel against the stone in your mind and practice practice practice. There is a lot of muscle memory that you have to develop since your arm and hand moves up and down with the curve of the blade similar to a rolling X stroke. Or.....you can spend a few hundred on one of those new fangled machines and skip the practice part and get results right away. It is valid but IMO not as rewarding.