I think you probably did very well in the razor that you sent out. You stated you used a Japanese progression which tells me that the bevel had the typical matted finish and smooth homogenous edge which is just about perfect for anybody that has a modicum amount of experience with properly honed razors. I usually stop at a very light slurry on my Asagi and that is about right for someone that I do not know. There is also the point to be made that if one stops there, and is giving it to someone who has a lot of experience, that a few laps on the felt will tune up any properly hone razor. Me, personally, I like 5 laps on CBN which is my weapon of choice after the final step off the rocks and I would never think of giving such an edge to anyone that I did not know.
It is very hard honing for someone else and I tip my hat to the guys that do a lot of it. I would like to do more because I really enjoy honing with my J-Nats but I have enough going on in my life without adding more.
Good luck,
Richard