Funny, the term splash makes ME think of the amusing Tom Hanks film about the super hawt mermaid.
But it is still the accepted word for an aftershave that is not a balm, milk or lotion...The word used by makers and users alike. Sorry to hurt your delicate feelings...
Smoke, if you want a masculine scent that many women love, Penhaligon's English Fern. It's a different TYPE of masculine, a more sophisticated masculine (think James Bond in evening wear, rather than James Bond kicking the crap out of terrorists...Sean Connery, not Daniel Craig), but very very good.
If you're looking for something darker and warmer, perhaps Amber? It's all viking-y and spicey...