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I use a 4" wheel most of the time. That works well. You just have to grind more at the edge area.
In order to end up with a narrow bevel, I grind until the blade passes the thumbnail test. At that...

The tail is ok. The twisting made it a bit thin, but that is called learning :)
More important is grinding thin and even enough that the bevel is thin everywhere, and equally narrow.