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How about a coat of thin CA as a sealer before the poly? This would soak in more that poly would, and help to harden the fibers. You can get inside the scales with a Q-tip. If the stabilizing...

The "incredibly soft and porous" indicates that perhaps they should have been stabilized. This is probably still possible - If I were you, I'd ask on this site if there is anyone near your home with...