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Here is a vid of using lapping paper to hone with. Water is used to bond the paper to the backing and wet it prior to honing.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dsp2u7L_WuY

Bob

You need to shave with a "shave ready razor" and not one that is dull from the factory. Even then if you have not shaved with a straight razor before it could take months to become proficient with...