Hang in there. If this octogenarian can get it going in the right direction you young whippersnappers can. Get that fine razor pro honed and keep going. I've found that I sometimes have to finish a shave using a DE, SE or disposable as I learn my facial contours. IF you haven't noticed, the SOTD often features a shave done with a DE, SE and at times a trac razor.

As far as ham fisted goes, I'm the original 'if a pound of pressure is good than ten more would be better. I resorted to bench stropping and know my pressure is whisper light. Training your muscle memory is a bitch but worth it.

Keep us posted to your progess.