Definitely +1 on having someone hone for you, initially... There are just so many parameters and preferences to consider. You really need to understand all the intricacies of shaving first or you will just be taking two steps back for every one forward.
Barber's Hone or similar around 8-12k is what you will be looking for but, the trouble is, just like with Shave Ready, there is a wealth of subjectivity when it comes to information and recommendations about Honing.
My suggestion... 1) Get it Honed by someone in The Classifieds here or similar skill. 2) Get really good and comfortable with all aspects of ambidextrous wet shaving. Then, sometime down the road, acquire some gear and start Honing.
Not that I nor many others have followed this advice, but it really is the best way to go.