Just remember its your first shave. My first shave I did my whole face and it was uncomfortable. Hell the first few shaves were but now I get a comfortable and close shave with no irritation. It is like learning to ride a bike, so don't give up on it. As far as slower strokes I don't know if that will help or not. I found when I try to go real slow the blade sticks and I cut myself, but thats just me. The irritation is normal just getting used to the new equipment and angles you need to get a close shave. Getting the angles right helps a lot. Just stick with it you will get it.