I wasn't sure where to put this question.. stuck it in newbie corner because that's me.

I figure you guys who've been at this thing for a while may also be expert in the realm of hair tonics. What I'm using today is American crew fiber and it's a good enough product but it dries a bit too stiff for me. American crew makes another kind of product called grooming cream which is perfect except that it's really tough to get out of my hair the next day so I put that on the shelf for now.

Appreciate any tips if you know of a good hair tonic, gel, or pomade that has reasonable hold, not too oily and won't dry stiff (I'd rather have it a bit oily than stiff if I have to choose between those). Of course it'll be just perfect if it has a barbershop smell to it.

Thanks in advance!

Charlie