1) You need a really well honed razor to get a smooth ATG shave, so you might want to develop your honing skills and hold off on ATG for now. That is what I'm doing as I'm a newb as well. Chances are if your razor was honed when you received it but you stropped it then the edge isn't what it could be.

2) You will learn different angles, length of strokes, etc. for different parts of your face with more practice. Take it slow, and the technique will come. Everyone's face is different. Everyone's beard is different. Experiment carefully and be patient.

3) Any of the AOS creams should give you amazing lather that does not dry within a reasonable amount of time. I usually can finish en entire pass without having to re-apply cream due to dryness. Try adding a little more water, that is most likely the reason your cream is drying out. AOS creams are great quality, even if they're not considered "traditional."