My recommendation would be to back off on the Nick Cave music and move over to something more calming and soothing. Tops on the list would be some Lawrence Welk TV sound tracks, some of the old The Carpenters stuff if you can find it on eight tracks, and maybe some old Tom Jones stuff.

If you ever get into "speed shaving", I highly recommend Lou Reed's "Heroin" from the "Rock and Roll Animal" CD.

Just trying to help you out, mate!

And congrats on a great start!