Thread: taking a break...

Originally Posted by JMS

I would ask her for a straight answer, and if I didn't get one to my satisfaction I would ask her to leave, unless she lived there first, then I would leave!

I'm with Mark on this one. I don't even know what a break means (damn female vocab...), but it doesn't sound possible when in the same house.

Taking a break from each other and living together are a physically impossible combination.

Sit her down and talk untill there's either no relationship left or it's solved and you're both happy.

Taking a break is just a way of dragging out the misery and causing more pain (probably for both of you).

And even if it means you break up you're better off broken up and miserable for a while then miserable for a long time, then broken up and even more miserable because of the time (and feelings) you wasted on a doomed relationship. (Believe me....I know.)

I Have to agree with the majority on this one. Sounds as if her mind is made up. You need to talk things out in a non threatening environment, and reach a conclusion. The longer you drag your feet, The worse it will be when and if you break up.