I agree that they are private matters for those who wish to keep it private! That is why I set the poll up, so you wouldn't have to reveal yourself if you didn't want to!

As far as going bad, I am certain you are not referring to this community as there have been several threads about politics, religion,and even one about God Himself and for the most part they all went swimmingly! Check the off topic forum going back at least six months and see for yourself!