Thread: For An Intelligent Conversation On Spirituality/Religion

Originally Posted by Tony Miller

Thanks,
Tony

I like that post, I am happy that you are content with your convictions. That is a very nice place to be.

Originally Posted by DerekC

you must accept that you might be wrong. I firmly believe that the Bible is truth, but other religions also believe that their text is the inerrant truth, as well.

Well, they are wrong. God's word is truth whether I believe it or not. See Is it possible for us as men to have a discussion on God

Originally Posted by gugi

Actually, the logically true statement is that this is your opinion/belief of what God's word is. I'm glad that it works for you, but I also recognize that you are a minority.

I'm sorry gugi but I still can't figure out what you mean. Please inform me.

Originally Posted by joesixpack

Hey now, don't act like they don't exist (respectful christians, i.e.). There are plenty out there. You simply remember the rude, vocal and bombastic ones. This is called "confirmation bias".

The fact that your neighbors haven't shown up at your door with pitchforks and torches is proof enough that the majority don't get their dander up over your atheism.

I have found a fair number of respectful Christians who have been willing and able to argue in the best of terms with this atheist. I have also found a fair number of insufferable atheists who tend to embody the worst of what they claim "the Christians" to do. Both sides have their better and worse representatives (and, really, this goes not just for atheists/Christians, but every denomination/lack thereof).

If you (general you) actually want to know what someone thinks, the best way to find out is to talk with them. If they actually want to get their point across, they'll do it without denigrating others, otherwise it's time to just walk away.

Though I am an atheist, I am fascinated with belief - what drives it, what form it takes actions-wise (especially there - very important), what could shake it, make it stronger, etc. There have been times when I have wished I believed - thought how comforting it would be to pray and believe that some force was not only listening, but willing to come to my aid in times of distress. But I cannot honestly do so. That leap is not something I can make, and not something I am going to pretend to make. But it is an interesting thing to me that so many do.

You do not even believe in the possibility?

Originally Posted by jockeys

1. in point of fact, i've never met one IRL. they seem to exist on this forum. maybe it's a regional thing?
2. no, my neighbors just refuse to talk to me. but i did once get punched in the face for saying i didn't believe in God, does that count?


1. as mentioned above, never met one IRL. have met some on the forum. maybe they'll migrate to Texas someday.
2. Jonathan Edwards was a giant douchebag, and has hurt Christianity, membership-wise, more than anyone except St. Augustine, imho. as Ghandi once said: "I like your Christ. I do not like your Christians. Your Christians are so unlike your Christ."

I hesitate to say this as it may seem insulting, and I don't wish to do that Jockeys. I've read a lot of your posts and find you to be pretty intelligent and fair minded. But I have to wonder how you have expressed your beliefs and how you have characterized the beliefs of those you are speaking to. I'm not saying that punching someone in the face is acceptable under any circumstances. Clearly, that was a crazy individual, but I have been able to maintain friendships with many faithful people who know that I am an atheist.

I grew up in Dallas, and I know that there are a good number of fundamentalist nut-cases out there, but there are also a lot of otherwise nice folks.

Originally Posted by gregs656

You do not even believe in the possibility?

Nope. I have tried - and by tried I mean tried. In brief: My mother's family is Catholic (like Mexican and Polish Catholic, so Catholic)- I figured I should be, too. The more I studied, the less convinced I was of the whole thing, though. At first I thought I just had trouble with Jesus. It just seemed so unlikely, and also there was a lot of discrepency between the OT and the NT. Eventually I dropped out and let it rest a while.

We'd lived most of my life in heavily Jewish areas - old Eastern Euro, and NY influenced mostly. I loved the stories, the food, the people themselves. I felt very connected from a young age. I thought well, maybe I'm Jewish. I went through a very arduous process and made a full Conservative conversion. No mean feat, let me tell you. While I felt (and to a large extent still feel) at home with my people, I have never felt at ease with God.

The more I studied (Talmud and Torah this time) the less close I felt to the idea of God, and the more angry at the very idea, to say nothing of the actions depicted therein. BUT the closer I feel toward my fellow man. I am glad to trade that, to be honest. Finally, I just let go of god, as Julia Sweeney put it. I have been much more at ease ever since.

Not that I feel I have license to just do whatall - rather, I feel much more inclined to do things for the sake of my fellow human beings than for the glory of what I view as an invisible and non-existent creature. (And I will not even go into my view of the OT and NT god. It never sits well with people, so why, really? My views there are probably as offensive as the idea that I am going to hell for not believing, yes?)

In brief - I feel that justice should be worked for on earth, where we do have certainty of existence. Justice takes the form of actual legal justice, and the idea that we do have a responsibility to care for each other.

Originally Posted by Elliette

Nope. I have tried - and by tried I mean tried. In brief: My mother's family is Catholic (like Mexican and Polish Catholic, so Catholic)- I figured I should be, too. The more I studied, the less convinced I was of the whole thing, though. At first I thought I just had trouble with Jesus. It just seemed so unlikely, and also there was a lot of discrepency between the OT and the NT. Eventually I dropped out and let it rest a while.

We'd lived most of my life in heavily Jewish areas - old Eastern Euro, and NY influenced mostly. I loved the stories, the food, the people themselves. I felt very connected from a young age. I thought well, maybe I'm Jewish. I went through a very arduous process and made a full Conservative conversion. No mean feat, let me tell you. While I felt (and to a large extent still feel) at home with my people, I have never felt at ease with God.

The more I studied (Talmud and Torah this time) the less close I felt to the idea of God, and the more angry at the very idea, to say nothing of the actions depicted therein. BUT the closer I feel toward my fellow man. I am glad to trade that, to be honest. Finally, I just let go of god, as Julia Sweeney put it. I have been much more at ease ever since.

Not that I feel I have license to just do whatall - rather, I feel much more inclined to do things for the sake of my fellow human beings than for the glory of what I view as an invisible and non-existent creature. (And I will not even go into my view of the OT and NT god. It never sits well with people, so why, really? My views there are probably as offensive as the idea that I am going to hell for not believing, yes?)

In brief - I feel that justice should be worked for on earth, where we do have certainty of existence. Justice takes the form of actual legal justice, and the idea that we do have a responsibility to care for each other.

God tends to pain the conscience. Human kind runs from that pain into the arms of many distractions, one of which is religion itself.

I find for me that God lives in my heart and I could not accept him through the stumbling block of religion but only through daily searching, pondering.
Where ever your path takes you, I wish you luck. you seem a rather reasonable person and I have enjoyed your posts.

I asked because I think the term atheist is incorrectly used by a lot of people, that was a very interesting reply.

I've enjoyed reading this thread, I think this is one of the few threads where generally people have accepted that every one is entitled to their beliefs and whilst it is ok to share your own, and hope that people learn from them, you do not need to be dogmatic about it. That is something to be proud of.

Originally Posted by JMS

God tends to pain the conscience. Human kind runs from that pain into the arms of many distractions, one of which is religion itself.

I find for me that God lives in my heart and I could not accept him through the stumbling block of religion but only through daily searching, pondering.
Where ever your path takes you, I wish you luck. you seem a rather reasonable person and I have enjoyed your posts.

I never felt I was running from a pained conscience. I just never really got the belief. I felt badly about it, and irrationally felt badly for god that maybe I was hurting his feelings by not believing in him, but then one day I said - Well, what doesn't exist cannot be offended, so... What I was running from was the idea that I should believe. That idea came from people around me - family, social circles, etc. Once I let go of that - realized that the only sin, as Ann Druyan's grandfather put it, would be to pretend I did, I felt a lot better. Free. I live an honest life without pretending.

My mother is disappointed that I do not believe. But she realizes that the actions a person takes really count more than the beliefs behind them, and is generally pretty happy with me on that account, so all is well.

I try to act ethically. When I do not, that is where my conscience gets pained. Then I have to try to undo whatever it is I did. On Earth.