View Poll Results: Do you speak your mind to your other half?

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  • No, I'd rather go along to get along

    5 7.81%
  • Are you kidding? I'd lose my balls

    1 1.56%
  • Yes, but I still lose my balls

    16 25.00%
  • I say what I feel needs to be said regardless of the consequences.

    42 65.63%
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    Wink Are you a manly man or a girly man?

    When I was married my wife wanted a dish washer. I told her they were attached to her wrists.
    A member just replied to a thread with the above quote as part of the reply! I have always been under the impression that men don't speak to their ladies this way any more, that is except me. Well, seeing that we have a member who is willing to say such things to his wife without fear of consequences lifted my heart about men in general.
    This inspired me to start a poll!

    Do you speak your mind with your significant other?

    Well, do you, punk?

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    Are you a manly man or a girly man?

    Dignity of manners conveys a reserve of force.
    'Living the dream, one nightmare at a time'

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    Quote Originally Posted by welshwizard View Post
    Are you a manly man or a girly man?

    Dignity of manners conveys a reserve of force.
    +1. I am more of the "quiet man" school with my wife and children, and in general. That way, when I say something, it is heard.

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    I say stuff like that to her in jest, but definitely not seriously. She would punch me in my face, and IMO, rightfully so. I treat her with respect, which is, in my opinion, manly of me. So I guess I'm a manly man.

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    I have learned never to disregard consequence so I frequently ask, "what answer do you want from me"? and think twice about how I'll speak. She's aware of it and it sometimes infuriates her, but I keep up. The women in this family are a force to be reckoned with!

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    I answered "Yes, but I still lose my balls" because she can find ample opportunity to give it right back to me. I win/lose some, she wins/lose some. What can ya' do? I'm happy and that's what's important.

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    Quote Originally Posted by welshwizard View Post
    Are you a manly man or a girly man?

    Dignity of manners conveys a reserve of force.
    I like this answer!

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    She pretty much is a spoiled princess and gets anything she wants....
    She puts up a great argument and can get her way most of the time...

    Right up until I say, "Enough"..... then I rule, and it is my way period...

    This has worked for the last 17 1/2 years so yeah I am a Manly Man when needed...

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    Quote Originally Posted by gssixgun View Post
    She pretty much is a spoiled princess and gets anything she wants....
    She puts up a great argument and can get her way most of the time...

    Right up until I say, "Enough"..... then I rule, and it is my way period...

    This has worked for the last 17 1/2 years so yeah I am a Manly Man when needed...
    I like this answer too! My mother said that when I deal with a woman don't be like a shower curtain...you know, you punch at it and it gives way, you never make solid contact, but neither should you be all iron but rather you should be like a velvet glove filled with an iron hand. Loving and caring but no nonsense and immovable as needed.

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    I say what I want to say. She likes it that way.

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