i can honestly say that everytime i have a girlfriend (right now we are at 3 years and VERY happy) i have girls hitting on me all the time. call it a confidence thing, call it not trying so hard or maybe there are just some girls who like a challenge. i don't know what it is but i have never cheated on a girl, no matter how tempting it was. plus i don't buy the excuse of being drunk that some guys come up with cuz i have been there too and been able to see that it was still wrong.

i think that the main difference with me is that i have always dated girls that i really enjoyed talking to and getting to know as well as found them very attractive. i tend to wonder whether or not a lot of these celebs try to make the same connection. i know there are some that do, but i don't doubt that "arm candy" isn't the base of some of these celeb marriages. sad to say.

so in closing, 1 is enough for me. seriously its all i can handle,