That remindse of a Jeff Foxworthy bit I saw about how guys trash talk to other men they like and how woman would be crushed. Boy isn't that the truth!
Men see other guys they know. "Hey fatass! Careful there you're leaving footprints in the concrete! Love the shirt. Do they make it in men's?" (Turns to his wife) "God, I love that guy!"
Women see other gals they know. "Oh Hiiii!!! You look great! I love that dress it looks SOOOO good on you! Let's have lunch some day soon!" (Turns to her husband). "Ugh! That fat cow! I hate her!"