I wore bow ties as a 12 year old nerd...
Now as a 30+ year old nerd, I avoid ties for the most part (I'm not in that sort of work field) but I did get married in a black bow tie.
Once you learn how to tie one, I will say it seems tacky to see the pre-stitched ones most folks get, almost like the old 70's clip on ties.
It isn't that hard to tie them. After awhile you realize it's basically the same knot you use on your shoelaces....

John P.