With all due respect, I don't see even one snarky response to the OP. As with many posts, posts develop and evolve within a post and I don't find any of those directed to the OP or snarky. A bit of silliness here and there (guilty as charged). Frankly, I believe some posters really went the distance to help the OP. A journey of a 1000 miles begins with one cry for help. We heard it. We have all asked questions, the OP has nothing to be ashamed of.