And that is part of what you will get from hands on learning. We always say no pressure, but that is not true, especially when bevel setting.

You need some pressure, sometimes a lot of pressure. You have to do what the razor needs. Once you grind the bevels flat and in the correct plane, then lighten up on the pressure and polish the bevel. Try adding an additional layer of tape to increase the angle.

The problem is your definition of lite or heavy pressure will be vastly different from mine.

Additionally, almost none of us are honing the same razor in the same condition on the same stones.

Photos of your razor and bevels would help in advising you.