This is an utterly pointless diversion that has nothing to do with how this beginner screwed up his razor. I recall being reminded that we are supposed to help beginners here, so let’s stay on the true topic.
When one of your only tools is a hammer, too many things look like nails. The stabilizer had nothing to do with what went wrong here. Anyone who has honed a new Boker King Cutter knows this. The stabilizer did not cause this problem. Absolutely inexperienced and terrible honing caused this; and eventually the stabilizer suffered along with the rest of the razor.
The damage happened because the honer focused too much on the pressure on the spine rather than on the edge. The spine is to serve as a guide to set the angle of the honing but the blade needs to be slightly torqued to emphasize the pressure on the edge rather than the spine. We regularly advise beginners to tape the spine partially to accommodate for failure of beginners to focus the pressure on the edge rather than the spine.
This beginner made two mistakes. First, he put too much pressure on the spine and not enough on the edge. Second, he failed to tape the spine, which would have prevented the subsequent wear on the spine.
Because the pressure was continually higher on the spine rather than the edge, the angle of the blade kept lowering and as a result the angle of the bevels kept lowering. Because of this, the bevels never met to form an edge. This is why he never found a sharp edge. He never had one because the angles kept lowering as he kept wearing down the spine. This mistake was doomed to failure.
So now what?
GET HELP!!!!
Find someone local to help you or get more one on one help online. The first step should be to get these razors fixed by someone who knows what they are doing. Only then should you try honing your own razors again. Please don't give up and please don't take what we are telling you that you did wrong as any sort of personal criticism. For the most part, we are here to help!