If you can't find someone close enough to drive to then some one on one guidance through e-mail or PMs Skype ,,,is your next best bet. The open forum is fine for getting ideas and discussing problems ,sharing, yada yada , but you need somebody to help you focus on a solution. Once you both have the same picture in your mind you can proceed to a solution. :<0)

Look in the members section for locations near you, look for a honing service in Craig's list near you. I bet you will be surprised to find, help is not that far away. Good luck and let us know how it is going.