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No, I don't think ebay can force the seller to lower the shipping. The most they will do is let you off the hook paying, since when you hit the buy-it button you agree to the stated shipping charges....

yes, what he is doing is violation of ebay's policy. sometimes ebay cares about it, usually it doesn't.
once i bought something on buy-it-now and then realized the shipping was ridiculously high,...