I have a system:

If I get feedback as soon as I pay, I leave exceptional feedeback/ along with a "Thought" out response if warranted (I really have never had and eBay seller rip me off)

If they hold me hostage, they get the canned response basically " Item sent as advertised" and I do not do anything else...


I agree, as a buyer my feedback is dependant on how fast I pay (for me within 1 hour of winning, ALWAYS) everything else is up to the seller to provide...

I have never sold anything on eBay perhaps my response would be different if I had..