Quote Originally Posted by DFriedl View Post
See the problem? Whether she or I was in the wrong, I paid within 30 seconds of auction close. I should have received positive feedback. My expectation of her communication or shipping time or my comment about it have nothing at all to do with the execution of my part of the transaction.
To be fair - you could also have the same problem as a seller; a buyer leaving negative feedback for things having nothing to do with the transaction. Irrespective of who leaves feedback first, that risk is still there for one party or the other.

You were unfortunate to have had to deal with a jerk.
What goes around comes around, and I'm sure that kind of behavior will come back to bite her at some point.