First,try not to be frustrated. You have to walk before you run. THERE IS a solution. I too, have an extremely tough beard and believe me-once you feel what a TRULY SHARP razor can do,you'll see why we all are so dedicated.

Pre-shave prep is crucial. Your skill will only come with practice. Learn to respect the blade-but don't fear it. Razor burn/ irritation occurs when you don't let the RAZOR do the work. And if its not sharp-its not going to cut your whiskers-it will however turn your face into HAMBURGER.

I encourage you to read through some of the threads posted. You aren't the only one to experience frustration. DON'T QUIT.