Rub your hand on your face before you take your shower.....probably like 80 grit sandpaper.

Rub your hand on your face after a hot shower and some conditioner.....probably like 220 grit sandpaper. Time, moisture and heat will soften your whiskers, and your skin. When the elasticity of your skin increases, it allows you to pull in various ways and get the whiskers just where you want them before you mow them down.

I also agree with Lynn and Blix. Short meaningful strokes....about 1/2 an inch or so long. Hold the razor tight in your fingers....but keep the pressure light. That will allow a bit of flex...

....I miss JimmHAD's signature....it was good advice.