Thank you razor Joe; however, I have already established my understanding the metaphor of the babe receiving only milk. What we are looking for is the solid food that feeds the spirit of the mature believer.
I want you to show me those scriptures that show one how to attain spiritual enlightenment, to be filled with the peace of God, so there is no fear, no spiteful word, no violence; only love.
I am afraid I do not see these things acting in the world except for very very very few rare individuals. Some people show aspects of virtue but in an instant can turn showing pain and fear in the form of anger, lashing out.
think about the typical marriage -who else can push our buttons as well as the spouse- our tender love turns instantly to biting the others head off once the stress goes up just a little. Real love does not act that way.