Okay, I've never honed or sharpened anything in my life. I purchased a Naniwa in 12,000 grit so that I can do my own honing. From my reading I am left confused. I need to "lap" the stone before first use? I procure a lapping sheet for this? My searching has not left me feeling confident in what I need to do. If anybody can point me to where this question has been explained on the level somebody with my practical intelligence (low), I was be very appreciative!

Also, there has to be a good video guide to the actual honing process. If you know of one, I'd love to see it! Thanks.