Superfly, I often use both hands myself when honing. I meant to just point out that it takes so little pressure to make a huge difference in the honing stroke that you have to be careful. You can especially see it if you have a blade that is just warped a few millimeters. It takes practically no pressure at all to push the warped section of the edge down flat on the stone. I sometimes spread my fingers along several places on the blade, to more evenly disperse the pressure when pushing the blade along over the hone. Experience is the best teacher here. Find what works for you.
As to finishing up an edge for a comfortable shave....the stropping is so key here. Very few members here can hone a razor to supreme sharpness without the aid of finishing with a strop and good stropping technique. That skill can make or break an otherwise excellent honing job. Very small differences in technique, both in honing and stropping, make a very big difference in final results. Just keep working at it, and it will all click for you soon enough.