The most confusing thing for a newbie is the pressure used on the razor. It must have SOME pressure to hold the razor down, the question is only how much is enough. I think Randy was measuring presure on the kitchen scale, but can't remember the numbers... The thing when honing is that you suddenly "feel" the edge is going right. At least it was for me. When I was begining my honing experience (or when honing dull razor) it felt like I was honing on glass, not cuting anything, and without resistance. Tis the best I can describe the feeling...

Nenad